When planning your big day, choosing a wedding photographer might seem like just another task to tick off. But your photographer will be the one preserving your most precious moments – and you only get one shot (pun intended).
To help you avoid disappointment, here are some of the most common mistakes couples make when searching for a wedding photographer.
What are the red flags when choosing a wedding photographer?
Common red flags when choosing a wedding photographer include:
- You ask for a full wedding gallery and get a link to Instagram. A dozen perfect shots from a styled shoot are not a wedding day.
- No written contract, or worse – a contract full of mysterious clauses that sound like they were written in 2003.
- They reply to your email three days later with “sorry, was busy” – if that’s now, what will delivery time look like?
- “I can shoot in any style you want!” – Translation: I don’t really have one. That’s a red flag in disguise.
- They don’t ask you a single question about your wedding. Zero curiosity equals zero connection equals zero magic.
- When you try to ask about timelines or insurance, they change the subject. Or worse: “Nah, I’ve never needed that.”
- They speak more about their new camera than your love story. Trust your gut – not the gear specs.
Avoiding these mistakes can have a huge impact on how your wedding is remembered.
Looking for guidance on choosing the right photographer?
I’ve put together a detailed step-by-step guide on how to find a wedding photographer who fits your style, understands your vision, and delivers results you’ll love for decades.
Finding your perfect match takes time – but it’s worth it. The right photographer will help you relive your day through images that feel exactly like you.
Got your own story about choosing a photographer – good or bad? I’d love to hear it.
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